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Reggie Youngblood and Tami Roman

Tami Romanis a forward-thinking spouse when it comes to her husband’s potential desire to have children.

But Roman also explained to hostsGarcelle BeauvaisandAdrienne Bailon Houghtonthat she is open to the idea of Youngblood and her taking a “break” so that he can “go find someone to have a child with.”

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“I believe in coparenting,” she later added, when Houghton asked if the birth mother would be part of the picture as well. “I believe that’s a very valuable part of the child’s life if the parents aren’t together. You need to learn how to coparent. And then I can be there and love the child as if it was my own.”

Roman — who reunites with herThe Real World: Los Angelescast members forThe Real World Homecoming: Los Angeles, premiering next week — also made sure to say that while Youngblood would be allowed to procreate with one woman extramaritally, she herself “would not entertain any other men.”

“I am a one-penis woman so even though we would be on break I would not entertain any other men because that would still be my husband,” she toldThe Realhosts. “I’m just giving him the opportunity to go have a child.”

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As for Youngblood’s reaction to this modern proposal, Roman said he didn’t go for it.

“But he said, ‘I don’t want that. I fell in love with you, you’re the woman that I’m going to spend the rest of my life with, and if God put me here and I’m not supposed to have children, then that’s what it is,’ " she revealed.

She went on to say that the decision felt like “a blessing and a curse,” since she now felt there was a “selfish” element to their relationship.

“I really do want him to have children,” she said. “I just can’t be the person to do that.”

The Real World Homecoming: Los Angeleswill premiere Nov. 24 on Paramount+.

source: people.com